HOW SPICED WIFE CAME ABOUT

In July 2017, I received a life-changing message from God through a prophet I had never met before. He shared that God was going to do something amazing through me—along with many personal details that only God could have known. The following weekend, everything he spoke began to unfold before my eyes. At the time, I didn’t fully grasp it, but as the saying goes, “We live life forward and understand it backward.” Looking back now, I see it clearly—glory to Jesus!

The very next week, I found myself at a bridal shower, surrounded by laughter as the bride unwrapped gifts of lingerie. In that lighthearted moment, a powerful thought dropped into my spirit: "The excitement of new marriage should be celebrated not just by newlyweds, but by wives who’ve been married for years. They need a spark to reignite the passion that often fades over time."

From that moment on, God began to unveil the blueprint for Spiced Wife®. Over the next several months, I drew the logo, wrote the vision, and followed the leading of the Holy Spirit. Since launching in May 2018, this ministry has grown into a global movement—helping wives deepen their faith, revive their marriages, and rediscover joy in the bedroom.

All glory goes to God, who is always faithful to bring to life what He plants in us.

About Me.

Growing up as a bishop’s granddaughter, I was immersed in church life from a young age. If there was a need, I was there—ushering, directing the choir, teaching youth group, leading praise and worship, coordinating VBS, or even serving food as a waitress for guest churches. Surrounded by so much light, I unknowingly fell into the trap of religious performance—doing all the right things outwardly, while inwardly feeling disconnected.

At 18, I became pregnant and was asked to stand before the entire church to confess my "fall." That was one of several moments that instigated a deeper spiral into hidden sin, shame, and a performance-driven church attendance. I dangerously mastered a comfort with being spiritually dead and how to wear a mask well—appearing holy while privately broken.

But in 2015, by the pure grace of God everything changed. I experienced a holy disruption—an overwhelming fear, awe, and longing to know who Jesus really is. I realized I had only inherited a second-hand faith. Spiritually, I was breathing borrowed oxygen. I was tired of relying on others’ convictions and opinions—I needed my own encounter.

So I made a decision: to read the entire Bible for myself and to allow Jesus to reveal Himself on His terms. That’s when I rededicated my life to Christ—and everything changed. He showed me that He is alive, real, and the very definition of life itself. I haven’t closed my Bible since.

I’ve been with my husband since 2008 and married since 2012. He’s a steady, loving, and supportive man who prefers to stay out of the spotlight, faithfully anchoring the quiet, essential parts of our life. I’m so thankful for his heart, his leadership, and his unwavering faith. Together, we’re raising three vibrant, intelligent children in sunny California—a blessing we don’t take for granted.

I deeply love Jesus Christ, and I truly would be nothing without God as my Father. He has restored me from a life of shame, legalism, and addiction. He turned my ashes into beauty, and even in seasons of suffering, He gives me treasures and unspeakable joy.

OUR BELIEFS

At Spiced Wife®, we recognize that sex is not a sinful thing when experienced for the purpose God designed it for. We are about building wifely sisterhood, and taking a firm stand against gossip, arrogance, slander, and negative criticism. We are all about building trust, laughter, kindness, and honesty. We take off the make-up and have compassion for each other, we hold each other accountable by adjusting the woman in the mirror first. We are a community that is truly built on the love and correction of Jesus.

We believe in God the Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit.
We believe Jesus came to earth free of sin and died on the cross for our sins so that we might be reconciled back to God.
We believe that Jesus rose from the grave and will return one day to take His people away from the earth.
We are not affiliated with any specific religious denomination or church; our foundation is based solely on the guidance of the Holy Spirit & Scripture.
We believe in keeping God first in our lives and marriages between one man and one woman.