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Learn how to overcome the struggles of sexuality for Christian wives!

Are you ready to become holy and sexy by removing the mental and religious blocks? Sexual Healing Workshop is the only step-by-step workshop that will show you how to build mind-blowing sexual confidence while keeping GOD in the center!

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Does any of this sound familiar, even just one?

  • I struggle with being comfortable in the bedroom sometimes because of my or my husband's past.
  • All I heard in church was that sex was bad and now I feel dirty and ashamed with my husband.
  • I find it hard to want sex at all. I don't feel attractive, and I don't feel up to initiating sex.
  • Sex is just an overall uncomfortable subject for me and I want to be more confident. 
My Story

Unfortunately, I had sex before marriage, and I was hiding it from people in church who knew me well. Judging by my foolish behavior I thought I was hiding it from God too. I was faithfully involved in church, but religiously separated from God.


Sex did not even feel great, it was just temporarily fulfilling because it made me feel wanted. I am sure I was exposed to this sexual desire as a child when I was introduced to inappropriate movies and touching by an older male, but that did not become a revelation to me until I submitted by life to Jesus.


At that immature age I just wanted to be wanted. I had no standards set for my private life, and I was emotionally scarred from growing up in a divorced home. The enemy took advantage of it all, and Ied me to become comfortable in my hidden sexual sin. I was not sleeping around the city, but the few was enough to leave me damaged. 

My Story

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Years later God's love and grace restored me, and I married the man purposed for me to belong to. However, due to my religious based lukewarm spirituality and sinful past, I spent the first years of my marriage trying to figure out why I was no longer comfortable and confident in sex. Not only sex, but in honoring, respecting, and submitting to my husband! I controlled everything and did not trust him to lead. I wanted all things my way and almost lost my marriage! It was so backwards to me that I was finally married as God wanted, yet I lost my desire and excitement for sex, and it wasn't flowing how a Godly marriage was supposed to. I was struggling with so much confusion, insecurity, and unfulfillment.


I had no one to talk to for help who would be raw and real with me. My church circle was super loving, but deeply full of religion, there was no real relationship, just surface. We discussed wearing skirts to our ankles but never what happened underneath them. Everyone was so polished and dignified, no one appeared to be struggling with marriage. They all seemed to have picture perfect homes...seemed to. I had no one to ask about orgasms and arousal or feeling like sex was even ok! I had no one to show me how to not be so independent and headstrong as a wife... honestly, I felt as if I was more like church property than a person. If I had issues, I had to do like everyone else... Hide them, keep serving, and don't miss a Sunday. I was stuck.


However, looking back, that turned out to be the best thing for me; it drove me away from religion and into meeting Jesus. I met church, but my struggle pushed me to finally meet Jesus! I got into a relationship with Him that was not performance anymore, it was genuine, and I got to know Him for who He says He is and not who I was told He was.


During that time, I went through many lessons, corrections, deep transformations, renewed thinking and so much healing. I left the old wine behind and have been bold and fulfilled in my relationship with Jesus ever since! So, when I meet all of you amazing wives, I completely relate to your struggles. I experienced pain, shame, and suffering too. I know how you feel when your marriage and bedroom is supposed to be a blessing but instead is a burden. I knew those feelings of lingering doom and gloom, guilt, and condemnation from the fact that you don't know how to enjoy sex or who to ask for help and tips.


I know the temptation of turning to the world for their immoral tips and unknowingly defiling your marriage because your thoughts have been tainted. I know how it feels to dispassionately go through the motions to make people "happy" while deep inside feeling you're destroying all God wants to bless. 

Does this sound familiar? Are you hearing the same thoughts about marriage and life? Are you unfulfilled in your marriage and your bedroom but want things to be blissful and abundant? 

Well, you are in the right place! I am going to take you through my steps of complete change!

The sex I once did in sin, that turned into a guilty chore in marriage, has now become blessed, holy, ENJOYED, and spiced! The husband I use to try and correct and control, I now happily submit to and deeply honor after going through a process of major transformation!!


I am here to tell you that sex and marriage CAN be redeemed just as anything else can! You can't change your past, but you can start right now and change the rest of your life! I am now confidently HOLY and SPICED and you can be too!


I am Ashlyn and I have dedicated my life's purpose to helping wives, like you, go from the worst mindset and sexual discomfort to regaining passion within their bedrooms, and even improving the health of their marriage at the same time. I equip wives with the knowledge to design the most fulfilling, passionate, and effortless marriage and sexuality they can imagine.


If you want to learn more about how you can begin reviving your marriage and bedroom too sign up for one of my programs and begin the best investment of your life!

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