Working Remotely

Are you looking for guidance, accountability, and/or encouragement for your bedroom that isn't awkward or stiff?

Private coaching is here to make a much-needed change in your life! For the wives who want to know the power of letting God control their bedrooms instead of worldly or legalistic opinions, you are in the right place! Here, you will learn how to remain completely submitted to God even in having out-of-this-world amazing sex with your husband! In coaching, you will find confidence in asking ANY sex and wife life questions. You will get your personal needs discussed with you and receive the steps you need towards reaching your goals, improving your marriage, and being a better wife! There is no condemnation, no competition, no drama, no slandering, no judgment, and no shame. There IS loving conviction, accountability, and transformation! The counseling tools implemented in each session include cognitive-behavioral therapy through a Biblical foundation. Ashlyn has received her graduate certificate in Christian counseling however it is personal daily submission to God that brings success to each session! So many wives have seen much improvement in their marriages after their coaching with Ashlyn and you will too!

Coaching that is trustworthy and professional while remaining Biblical and intimate. You won't feel like a number or just a name on a clipboard. This is counseling that feels like a sisterhood. 

What You Can Expect

  • Private one-on-one coaching sessions catered to your personal needs.

    • 1-hour session

    • Book as many sessions as needed

  • Personal Growth

    • Correction without condemnation

    • Iron sharpening Iron (Prov. 27:17)

    • Genuine care for your needs (Prov. 18:24)

    • Learning to walk boldly as a sexy and holy wife,

    • Help to overcome people-pleasing (Gal. 1:10)

    • A better understanding of marriage and being a Biblical wife

    • Practical tools and strategies to improve your bedroom, marriage, and life

    • Sessions that are relateable and impactful

    • Cognitive-behavioral therapy!

    • An overview report emailed to you recapping the session.

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Private Coaching



  • Pay Per Session
  • Select your own time slot
  • Each Session is 1 hour
  • No time wasted, each session is focused on solutions and change!

Mrs. J. T.

What you’re doing is exactly what we need more of in the body of Christ. So, I greatly appreciate your obedience to God.

Thank you for your ministry. God is using you in my life and I am thankful. I have binge-listed in the last few days. I’ve been listening while cooking and cleaning and you are helping me re-ignite my faith and relationship with Christ. Thank you dear sister in Christ! 

Mrs. MJ


Mrs. T.

Good morning Ashlyn!! I just wanted to send you a message to simply thank you for your obedience to the calling of creating Spiced Wife. I am a first-time mommy and I threw myself into mom mode while trying to heal from what I considered to be a traumatic birth. What I didn’t see happen was how quickly I pushed my husband aside and the intimacy door closed. After listening to your podcast I prayed about our marriage and our sex life. I asked God to give me the desire for my husband that I had before…times 2! Well…this week for the first time in a while the sparks came back and I feel like a new woman!! Lol! I know it’s going to take some time to get back in the swing of things but I am just happy to see how he feels wanted and loved again. Thank you!!


Mrs. R. A.

Happy Sunday, beautiful soul! You don’t know me but I feel like you’re one of my best friends.
One very low day the Lord led me to search “How to be a Godly wife” on Hulu and up pops your podcast. I clicked on it and have listened to soooooo many of your episodes since then. I work from home and now every time I sit down to work, I push “play” and say a prayer. So many times I have to stop working to pray, cry, and process! God is changing me, my life, my marriage, and my family and He is using YOU!!! I couldn’t let another day pass by without saying thank you! Thank you for allowing God to speak through you, Ashlyn! Thank you for loving Jesus and others enough to listen to God’s calling on your life. What you do matters!!! I am sharing your podcast with all of my wifey friends. God’s continued and riches blessing on you and yours!!!