If you feel chained by your curiosity about sex — but long to live fully for God — this book is for you.
 
It might sound strange to say it that way, but it’s real. I was once that girl: I loved God deeply and wanted to live a pure Christian life, but I also longed to feel wanted — and that longing led me into decisions I regretted.
 
I fell into beds I shouldn’t have, carrying questions and shame I didn’t know how to share. I grew up in a loving church, but no one talked openly about sex or the hidden battles that so many of us face. Religion brought us together on Sundays but left us alone in secrecy the rest of the week.
 
If only someone had told me the truth — that my sexual curiosity was normal, that God cared about my struggles, and that I could talk about it without shame — maybe I would have kept my virginity. Since I didn’t have that safe place then, I’ve decided to be that safe place now.
 
In these pages, I share the honest truth I wish someone shared with me — not the sugarcoated lessons you hear in a typical Bible study, but real, raw stories and practical wisdom about sex before marriage. Yes, you’ll read Scripture, but you’ll also hear details the church often skips — the real-life moments that can help you stand strong when temptation comes.
 
If you’re brave enough to read with an open heart, this book will help you understand your desires, guard your purity, and walk confidently with God’s truth and grace.
 
Perfect for church youth groups, Christian book clubs, teen ministries, singles ministries — or anyone who’s ever heard the world’s message about sex and wondered what God really says. Along with my story, you’ll find reflection activities and goal-setting pages to help you grow and stay strong.
 
Read this, talk about it, and find freedom. May my past pain become your present victory.