Spiced Wife Resources

  • Achieving Orgasm

    Course for the wife who wants to enjoy her husband!
    Valid for one month
    • Instructional video on how to have an orgasm.
    • Lecture style video lesson with appropriate animations.
    • No sexual acts or demonstrations in video!
    • Faith based teaching that is classy and spiced!
    • Learn how to find God's blessing in sexual climax.
    • 1 Day Course
  • Sexual Satisfaction

    Increase Marital Sex Pleasure God's Way
    Valid for one month
    • Learn how to increase sexual satisfaction God's way!
    • Week 1 - Understanding Satisfaction
    • Week 2 - Sexual Creativity
    • Week 3 - Sexual Stimulation
    • Week 4 - Sexual Activation

Have you ever...

wanted to grow in your sexuality and relationship with God at the same time?

There is a huge taboo when it comes to talking about sex in a church setting, and I don't mean just discussing the birds and the bees. I mean having a transparent, fun, and encouraging conversation about increasing your sexual confidence and learning how to "drop it like it's hot" for your husband. 

We have lessons in church about everything, from speaking in tongues to building a business, but there are no classes on how to have and enjoy sex! If we need to be taught everything else in life, why aren't we being taught this? There seems to be this myth that something like this is "inappropriate" for church and this is why so many believers are secretly tip-toeing to the world for help. We have been told what NOT to do when it comes to sex, but there is no one to tell us how or what we CAN do. Our bedrooms are left in the hands of trial and error and marriages are privately suffering because of it. We are holy wives who have undeniable sexual needs and no matter your title or reputation, you need to know how to happily take care of the bedroom God's way.


I just wanted to post a special moment that happened in our marriage that I hope will encourage other wives. I listened to the podcast episode discussing shooting up a super quick prayer at the moment of our spouse having their orgasm (Episode 66). My husband listened to that whole episode with me the other night and he took it to heart much more than I thought. This morning after a lovely start to our Monday morning he came downstairs and asked if I remembered to pray in that moment. I couldn’t BELIEVE he remembered and I forgot.

But let me tell you something, I felt a shift in our marriage this morning. After 10 years, two babies, deployments, and some heavy life stuff, this morning he honored me in a brand new way and we never would have thought or known to do such a thing!! No idea what he prayed for. We didn’t discuss in depth. I’ll let that be for him and God for now. but seriously, y’all try it! Supernatural shifting!

I just wanted to send a huge praise to God for leading you Ashlyn Watkins in creating Spiced Wife and for helping marriages to seek God first and in ALLLLLLL things. Thank you!

—  Mrs. H.B.